PinnedThe anniversary of the day I realized my dad was dying.I’ll always be haunted by this date — October 20.Oct 20, 20211Oct 20, 20211
PinnedMourning a loss before it happens: reflecting on experiencesThe last few months have been very emotional. I’ve frequently woken up to text messages from my father’s friends, asking for updates and…Nov 8, 20205Nov 8, 20205
Telling your loved ones they’re dyingNearly 6 months have gone by since my father passed away yet it still feels as if it happened yesterday. When I dream I can still see his…Jun 6, 2021Jun 6, 2021
Vivid dreams, moments of weakness, and finding a new reality amidst grieving a terrible loss: ~3…Grief is an intense feeling. I’ve heard it described as both a ‘forbidden love’ and ‘deep sorrow.’ It’s really a blend of passion and…Mar 9, 2021Mar 9, 2021
Remembering my father: In honor of his 68th birthday.It’s been less than a month since my father passed away even though it feels like years have gone by. Two nights before his funeral, I sat…Jan 8, 20211Jan 8, 20211
What happens when your mind begins to deteriorate: Letting go of stigma & shameMental health and declining cognitive function is often stigmatized — a source of shame, fear, and secrecy. Prior to my father’s seizure…Nov 10, 20201Nov 10, 20201
Published inAn Idea (by Ingenious Piece)Finding out my father has brain cancer during the COVID-19 pandemicA 25-year-old’s journey to accepting the reality of an unfortunate situation.Aug 23, 20203Aug 23, 20203
